Friends Along the Road literature used to say that we provide “nonjudgmental” support for those in grief. We dumped that slogan because it is impossible to fulfill. Hell, I’m as judgmental as anyone, though I am constantly working on being less so. We also dumped “unconditional.” But the idea behind these statements is something we strive for, always: whether we call it “existential” support, “person-centered” support, or “caring” support, we want you to know that you may be the person best equipped to figure out how you should go about your grief and mourning.
We offer support by creating safe places called “sanctuaries,” and by teaching others to provide FAR sanctuaries. We hope that in a FAR sanctuary, you may feel safe and comfortable enough to make journeys of discovery, and find ways of keeping on. If you do not feel safe and comfortable enough, let us know, and we will do our best to improve these places.
And if you feel in need some guidance, our ideology will not get in the way: we will offer resources.